I read the adoption blogs from time to time ,however I never see anyone write about facts. Here in the UK we have a programme on tv called “Who Do You Think You Are ?”
I have to say none of the adopted parents think about this aspect of adoption , and I can only think that it is because it is something that they have no experience of as a mother who has lost a child simply because her child got ill with leukaemia and then lost a court case I would have plenty to say about the problems this group of children face in life in or out of adoption later on in their lives.
When the courts close the file they will not be thinking about opening the closed adoption file so that these children or adults can find a bone marrow donor or a stem cell donor. We know exactly why this is , it is to protect the identity of the professionals not to protect the ID of the child.
Please think about this too , it takes far to long a process to go through the adoption agency to find a birth parent.They do say that a quarter of the donors are found in this group for patients. With this £ pup mentality of the business of adoption I suppose the corporate parent is not bothered to do anything like leaving a contact or asking the birth parents would they mind leaving a genetic key for their child at the time the case is live.
This is only about supply and demand of children . The need of infertile parents and a need to claim government funding to warehouse children in the care industry. The bottom line is the Children Act 1989 has not considered the long term interests of children as it does not consider these children to be human beings with a legal personality or will the courts consider a right to life issue the same as any other person in society to find a donor.
This is the bottom line the courts do not care about children enough. I am hoping to bring a case for my missing son to have a full disclosure with a contact link to find a donor as all contact has broken down.
This is the real side of supervised contact.My son asking to see me and the social workers , and experts saying he does not ask to see me in contact.
Dr Claire Sturge what have you got to say now? This doctor stopped a child who had leukaemia from having contact.
Please notice the House Of Commons was empty ,just like the houses that are empty of children up an down the country with far to many families all saying the same thing. This can not be happening. Well it is an this 1 shoe fits all families. The system is wide open for social workers & Caffcass officers to lie commit perjury an legally kidnap your children. It is such a shame we can only talk about it in the House of Commons ,but not really move on to make any real change s to the laws that govern us the people in society .
This video was taken in 2005 shortly after my solicitor arranged for me to see Graham Flatman to do a report for court. This post is to highlight how dangerous these Psychologist really are when they get carried away doing out of date MMP1 tests.Graham asked me to report to do a test on how I would perform in hospital. I declined to do this as I was in a hurry to pack my case an meet my boyfriend in Canada. When I returned I got a shock when I read the report. Now it is Grahams turn to be shocked. I have got a copy of the bill you put in for an inconclusive report you done on me 3o years out of date I am showing the letters you sent out using the Clayton ruling. It seems that Graham has a problem with disclosure an wants to only be contacted at his PO BOX address . In April 2005 Graham was quoting his estimate bill for attending court £1,040.00 per court day,plus VAT .Travel is half rates. the estimate for doing a report was £130 per hour,total maximum estimate of costs to you the taxpayer is £5,980 plus VAT.
If you are not sure about a discussion with his secretary Elaine Dorman he wants to know if he will be needed for the final hearing. Graham is a bit shy about giving out his address an after word gets around about how he conducts his reports for court he will be needing a shout out so here it is.
Contact details for a Psychologist Grham Flatman : Rogue Traders directions to his home are Plumford FarmHouse Plumford Lane Ospring Faversham Kent ME13 0DS. Tephone 01795 534 411 fax 01795 534 225 mobile 07702 959 983
Strictly Private & Confidential
British Psychological Society
48 Princess Road East
Lecicester
LE1 &DR
I really would not bother putting in the complaints as they are useless. Graham if you are reading this or watching the video as you can see I am having no problems here at the time of writing your report .The contents are garbage the report is useless in so much you could not even explain or offer how you came to your conclusion.
How would I rate you ? well I would say pass , even though the solicitors ring up and see if he is free to do another poor mug for court.
I am so sorry have not had time to run this blog or keep up with the comments an the You Tube accounts either there is only so much time in a day. Then there is twitter Lyndamc64 follow me on there if you want a quick reply leave a message . I also did not expect to get comments to be honest with you .I thought it was just a fact that I was the odd mother who was being very difficult and simply wanted to address the problem with complaints about the system having lost my case in 2005 . These complaints are mostly to do with in it to bin it solicitors who say they are representing parents . I would guess it would take you 2 -3 years to even get through this complaints system which is so important to be dealt with when working with certain professionals. The so called experts who are ruling the courts and destroying families lives . Yes I agree it is a mammoth task for an ordinary parent to navigate the complaints system in an effort to show the the level of maladministration going on.
The parents coming trough the system now are picking up so quick what we have to say about firms of solicitors…..
I am so busy with the campaign for adopted children to find a stem cell donor , it seems to be a full time occupation of communicating and sharing information with other families wanting to know how they got hoodwinked into believing we had a fair and honest system . These families now want to leave a genetic key for their lost or stolen children in long term care ,or who had been fast tracked for adoption.
I am mostly working on www.Lyndamac.com so catch up with me on there if you need an urgent response. Otherwise visit Justiceforfamiliesforum John Hemming MP for Birmingham.
I read the adoption blogs from time to time ,however I never see anyone write about facts. Here in the UK we have a programme on tv called “Who Do You Think You Are ?”
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ave not had time to run this blog or keep up with the comments an the You Tube accounts either there is only so much time in a day. Then there is twitter Lyndamc64 follow me on there if you want a quick reply leave a message . I also did not expect to get comments to be honest with you .I thought it was just a fact that I was the odd mother who was being very difficult and simply wanted to address the problem with complaints about the system having lost my case in 2005 . These complaints are mostly to do with in it to bin it solicitors who say they are representing parents . I would guess it would take you 2 -3 years to even get through this complaints system which is so important to be dealt with when working with certain professionals. The so called experts who are ruling the courts and destroying families lives . Yes I agree it is a mammoth task for an ordinary parent to navigate the complaints system in an effort to show the the level of maladministration going on.